Too many things at a time

Have you had one of those days when nothing seems right; Everything seems to go wrong and all the efforts you make seems to go in vain. Well, I have been having a few such months. I keep trying to sort things and just when things look ok, something goes wrong and I end up where I started.
Just one instance, two months back my backpack got stolen from a library. What are the odds! I had a really rough time figuring out how to amend the things I have lost but the main task was to list what were the things I had lost and before I could do that the stealer had already used my card and spent all my money.. Gosh!
At times distress and mis-happenings kill us and these things are mostly never in our control.
At such times all we must do is take a deep breath. Take the problems one by one and try no to get burdened. If its really stressful I try taking long walks and it helps clearing my head to an extent. Its important to think clearly at such times.
No matter how bad it looks, we must know that eventually things all get sorted out and in chaos we end up finding patterns.
Everything is a phase and rolls in good and bad. So relax, take one long deep breath and take every day as it comes!

Love, tears and pain go together??

Ok.. Now that I have that one person I want to be with for the rest of my life and whom I love more and more each day.. I realize love is a difficult emotion and definitely not what we see in the movies.. my question here is that if we are so happy in love then why do we cry?
I fail to understand the tears it causes. It could just be that I feel so strongly for someone, although normally this should make me feel amazing, like wanting to shout from rooftops.. anything but something that makes me want to cry.
Love for one thing, should never equal pain!
I think if a person is in constant pain about his/her love of another person, something is wrong and its time for retrospection.
Here are some questions I asked yourself:

Exactly what about the person I love, or the way my relationship is going, makes me cry?
I love him, he loves me as well?
Did I fall in love with someone who does not love me in return?
Am I afraid that I might lose the person I love so much? Why is it that I am afraid?

Love is a very deeply felt emotion. Sometimes so intense are these feelings, that we find ourselves crying for really no reason - we're just overwhelmed by our feelings.
Maybe its because I have loved someone before and got hurt. So it makes me vulnerable and so I would keep worrying what if the same thing happens again?

Love isn't supposed to hurt; it's supposed to feel wonderful!

If someone is crying for the one they love, then it time for a long, HONEST conversation with our ownselves and figure the reason why we want to cry. Why feel hurt because we love someone? We must listen to ourselves, and may be we find the answers to these questions..