Ok.. Now that I have that one person I want to be with for the rest of my life and whom I love more and more each day.. I realize love is a difficult emotion and definitely not what we see in the movies.. my question here is that if we are so happy in love then why do we cry?
I fail to understand the tears it causes. It could just be that I feel so strongly for someone, although normally this should make me feel amazing, like wanting to shout from rooftops.. anything but something that makes me want to cry.
Love for one thing, should never equal pain!
I think if a person is in constant pain about his/her love of another person, something is wrong and its time for retrospection.
Here are some questions I asked yourself:
Exactly what about the person I love, or the way my relationship is going, makes me cry?
I love him, he loves me as well?
Did I fall in love with someone who does not love me in return?
Am I afraid that I might lose the person I love so much? Why is it that I am afraid?
Love is a very deeply felt emotion. Sometimes so intense are these feelings, that we find ourselves crying for really no reason - we're just overwhelmed by our feelings.
Maybe its because I have loved someone before and got hurt. So it makes me vulnerable and so I would keep worrying what if the same thing happens again?
Love isn't supposed to hurt; it's supposed to feel wonderful!
If someone is crying for the one they love, then it time for a long, HONEST conversation with our ownselves and figure the reason why we want to cry. Why feel hurt because we love someone? We must listen to ourselves, and may be we find the answers to these questions..
Subscribe to:
Post Comments (Atom)
No comments:
Post a Comment